a wise woman told me:
People who are accustomed to being verbally or emotionally abusive use privacy and lack of witnesses as a critical part of their strategy, so when you make those behaviors public, it rocks the boat and threatens to upset the pattern they are used to. It shifts the power out of their hands. They try to put it back on you by making you seem like the bad person because if they can get you to accept that, they can have their position of power back.
what great and honorable people you are, for picking on a single woman in private. berate her in emails and private messages. it shows you for the cowards you really are. grow a pair. if you want, you can borrow mine, but i want them back when i beat your ass.
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